LOOKING INTO THE EYES
Looking into the eyes, warmth in the heart, a smile. This is who human beings truly are. Although it may take time or even lives for us to express our natural disposition due to our everyday battles with our egos, fears, grieves, tireness and insecurities.
We are all so affected by the traps of the ego, without exceptions.
BUT IT STILL ALL STARTS WITH THE LOOK. THE DIRECT LOOK BETWEEN TWO HUMAN BEINGS.
This is one of the first interactions we have with the external world after our birth. The look between a mother and her baby.
Animals do not know how to look into the eyes, and it has no significance for them. Nevertheless the love interaction came to be indispensable for the survival of mammals. What differentiates mammals from other species of animals is that the fetus develops inside the body of the mother, nurturing from her substance, and after birth from her milk and affection, expressed through licking the cub.
In apes the same happens except for the fact that licking was substituted by grooming and in humans by touch and by looking into the eye. The child is nurtured by this touch and this look emotionally and physically. A baby who is not touched nor looked perishes.
In this way, the first true contact between two human beings remained the direct look. If you have never looked directly into someone’s eyes, you have never known nor met this person.
The look into the eyes is the way to establish a doctor patient relationship too, which is fundamental for the cure and this is just an example that can be applied for relationships between all human beings.
A doctor who does not look to you could mean:
Someone who does not care about you;
Who does not want you to approach;
Who does not like or reprove you;
Who is afraid of you, shy, or clumsy;
Who feels uncomfortable in your presence
Who is not even present;
Who considers him or herself superior to you;
Who considers him or herself inferior to you;
Maybe he or she wants to make some more volume of money, receiving more people, but then it is only business, not healing nor human interaction.
All distortions. With a look we can solve much of this distortion.
Without the look, nothing happens. This person has not established any contact with you. You both are at the zero point.
IT ALL STARTS WITH A LOOK
The disposition to look into the eyes is the characteristic of great souls, even when related to their enemies.
If you get in contact with a real master or a true king or queen, he or she looks to you directly in the eye, he or she searches for your eyes, for that’s the way souls interact and can access each other. This is essential for a leader, for a king, for a master, no matter who you are. You can be enlightened, or a very wise person and disguised as a beggar.
He or she looks you directly into the eye and you feel embraced, discovered, revealed and even naked through this look, no matter if you please him or not, no matter if he is gonna kill or love you the next second.
WE CALL IT PRESENCE
WE CALL IT FORCE OF THE SPIRIT
WE CALL IT COMMUNICATION BETWEEN SOULS WHEN ALL THE MASKS FALL.
WE CALL IT HUMANITY
WE CALL IT LOVE
It is sacred and divine in itself, no matter the results, no matter the differences.
It must be teached and preserved as the most precious legacy of humanity, of what is being human.
This is how souls interact. We are losing this treasure, this real gold to virtual, unreal, fake, superficial contact, that represents no transformation, no connection and no alchemy.
IT IS TIME FOR CHANGE, and each of us who deal with people have this mission of establishing meaningful, transforming, empowering, royal interactions with them.
This characterizes humbleness, nobility of character, open mindedness, awareness, presence, force of the spirit and LOVE.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.